Wednesday, August 20, 2025

Real Talk #5 - Your Guides Aren’t Your Therapists (and They Shouldn’t Be Your Crutch)

 

Let’s be clear—your spirit guides are not your therapists, life coaches, or decision-making outsourcing service.

Yes, you can connect with them. Yes, they can offer clarity, confirmation, even cosmic nudges. But when you’re asking your guides to micromanage your life? That’s not intuition. That’s dependency.

Spiritual connection should empower you, not babysit you.

There’s a big difference between working with guidance and offloading your growth. If you’re asking your guides to tell you what job to take, who to date, whether to end the friendship, and what to order for dinner, you’ve stopped trusting yourself.

And guess what? They’ll stop answering. Or they’ll give you nothing until you grow up a little.

Spiritual tools are here to help you deepen your sovereignty, not surrender it. When you treat your guides like your emotional rescue team, you lose the point of having a spiritual path in the first place.

You’re not meant to be passive in your own life. You’re meant to participate. Feel. Decide. Risk. Learn.

Your guides are allies, not managers. They’re not here to run your life for you. They’re here to walk beside you while you live it.

If your first instinct is to “ask your guides” instead of sit with your own wisdom, it’s time to pause.

The question isn’t what they think. It’s what you know, deep down, and whether you’re ready to trust it.

Spiritual maturity starts when you stop outsourcing your choices and start standing behind them.

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