Ok, I'm going to mention Boundaries again. Because it warrants a revisit.
“Be the bigger person” is often code for “tolerate more than you should.”
Let’s retire that.
You don’t have to out-kind someone who disrespected you. You don’t have to
prove your emotional maturity by staying silent. You don’t need to perform
peace.
You just need boundaries.
Being the boundaried person means: I can care about myself enough to walk away.
I can protect my peace without justifying it. I can speak the truth even if it
makes you uncomfortable.
That’s power. That’s presence. That’s healing.
You’re not here to be a martyr. You’re here to be real.
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